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Collection Three · 10 workbooks · 161 pages

Aging Parent Next Steps

Parent Care Changing Needs

The person still lives somewhere else. Something happened, or might. These ten workbooks organize the response and the conversation — they never diagnose, assess or stand in for a clinician.

Nothing in this collection diagnoses, assesses capacity, or stands in for a clinician, and none of it is for an emergency in progress.

10 workbooks
A01
20 pages

Three States Away

Long-Distance Response Plan

“The hospital called. I’m a flight away and I don’t know what to do first.”
  • Verify the event
  • Local eyes and access
  • Professional contact map
  • Travel decision
  • Family communication
  • Next-24-hours record

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A02
12 pages

No Answer

No-Response Safety Check Plan

“She always picks up. It’s been since yesterday morning.”
  • What is unusual today
  • Contact sequence
  • Local contact ladder
  • Escalation decision
  • Family update script
  • After-event reset

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A03
17 pages

After the First Fall

14-Day Observation and Next-Step Plan

“He fell, got up, and says it was nothing.”
  • Event facts
  • Questions for the aging adult
  • Home-condition walkthrough
  • Two-week support experiment
  • Observation record
  • Day-14 reassessment

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Not a medical assessment and not a home-safety certification. If injury or new symptoms are possible, contact a clinician.

A04
20 pages

Should They Move In With You?

Shared-Home Decision Scorecard

“Everyone assumes she’ll come live with us. Should she?”
  • Problem definition
  • Independence and support picture
  • Home and household capacity
  • Financial reality
  • Separate scorecards
  • Decision record

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A05
16 pages

The Local Sibling Is Drowning

Family Support Rebalancing Meeting

“I’m fifteen minutes away, so all of it is mine.”
  • Invisible-work inventory
  • Parent voice and consent
  • Local-only task sort
  • Remote contribution menu
  • Capacity and money options
  • 30-day rebalance

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A06
16 pages

They Say They’re Fine

Help-Resistance Conversation Planner

“Something has changed. She won’t discuss it.”
  • Facts versus conclusions
  • Urgency and safety sort
  • Their priorities
  • Smallest acceptable help
  • Conversation builder
  • Next-step boundary

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Prepares a conversation. It cannot assess capacity, diagnose impairment or resolve an emergency.

A07
14 pages

Discharged Friday

Weekend Hospital-to-Home Readiness Plan

“They’re sending him home Friday afternoon.”
  • Discharge facts
  • Questions before leaving
  • Home readiness
  • First-72-hours coverage
  • Weekend access check
  • Unresolved-gap escalation

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Coordinates the family handoff. Every medical question goes back to the discharge team.

A08
16 pages

After the Driving Scare

Mobility Replacement Plan

“He got lost driving home from church.”
  • What happened
  • Weekly trip inventory
  • Replacement options
  • Cost and access comparison
  • Trial reduction plan
  • Conversation and follow-up

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Plans transportation and the conversation. It does not assess fitness to drive or stand in for a clinician or licensing authority.

A09
13 pages

No Family Nearby

Local Emergency Circle

“If something happened tonight, who would get in the door?”
  • Support-circle inventory
  • Role assignment
  • Permission map
  • Access and logistics
  • Gap-filling plan
  • Quarterly test

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A10
17 pages

Before Something Happens

Emergency Information Map

“Only one person knows where anything is.”
  • People and permissions
  • Health-information locations
  • Home and access map
  • Document location index
  • First-call preferences
  • Update and handoff

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What do we do next when a parent or parental figure living elsewhere has a change, concern or emergency?

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What these are not

A workbook is a conversation, held on paper.

Every Roumo workbook supports a household conversation and records what the people in it decided. It is not legal, medical, financial, tax, housing-rights or mental-health advice. Local rules and individual circumstances vary. When rights, ownership, care safety or a major financial commitment are involved, bring in a licensed professional.

If there is a threat, coercion, abuse or a medical emergency in the house, that is not a worksheet problem. Contact emergency services or a qualified professional.

Where a workbook touches law, health or money more closely than most, it carries its own note naming that boundary. Read it before you start.